Loved ones whose relatives laid to rest in graves vulnerable to shoreline retreat say that a lack of decision over how to tackle the issue is creating avoidable anguish concerning the eternal homes of their departed family.
Local authorities have identified three church graveyards in the communities of Happisburgh, Mundesley, and Trimingham as being in danger of being consumed by the ocean in the next few generations.
A newly published study on the situation sets out a range of options, from doing nothing to exhuming remains and relocating them in more secure locations. Authorities say it is for the community to decide how to move forward.
“At the moment we’re in limbo. It upsets me. My parents wanted this to be their last home, but it isn’t going to be because of the sea.”
Projections suggest at least part of one churchyard could fall into the sea in the next 80 years, but some locals fear it will happen much sooner. “In my view it’s got less than 20 years, if you look at what’s happened in the last 30 years,” one said.
One resident recalled a childhood visit to the nearby settlement of Eccles, which has largely vanished into the sea, along with its church and graveyard.
“You could see people’s bones,” she said. “Certain people hold this idealized notion that people’s remains will just get carried away to the ocean. That is not the case. Individuals will take bones as souvenirs and go plundering graves in search of valuables. That is completely disrespectful.”
“I’m worried that the same thing that happened at Eccles will happen here and there’ll be bones on the beach. I’d be disgusted by that.”
Further up the coast is situated the burial plot of a ex-soldier killed while working overseas. His parent expressed she lost sleep after discovering her child's grave might one day be relocated.
“It does disturb me to consider this may not remain his lasting resting place,” she said. “For us it’s an significant place to go.”
In her view, new interments should stop but says it is too soon to exhume existing graves. “What I would choose for now is to take no action and closely monitor, but an early decision must be made when a tipping point has been reached.”
An absence of agreement over the timing and method to handle the problem has resulted in bereaved families feeling frustrated and worried.
Several families are calling for additional sea defences to slow the inevitable erosion and to permit burials to continue for now. Others argue the time for moving graves is approaching.
“The situation is very emotive,” said one relative. “The official study was thorough, but now there’s confusion about how it is implemented. And everybody is avoiding responsibility over who is accountable.”
A coastal manager confirmed the graveyards were under the care of the church authorities. “Ultimately it is down to them to choose the direction to take. We are here to assist them through that process with residents.”
It was also stated there was time to consider all the options. “We are talking decades before it starts to be lost.”
“Currently, there exists no common view on what should happen yet. We need good local conversations to discover the appropriate answers for each village.”
The possibility of the loss of the historic sites was labeled one of “profound sorrow for the local community,” but faith leaders also spoke of a doctrine in resurrection, providing a theological viewpoint on the physical disappearance of hallowed earth.